Last
Wednesday, December 10th was the 100th anniversary of my
father’s birth. My sisters and I celebrated the occasion together with a
special lunch. It is an interesting experience to so closely connect with an event a
century old within one’s own family.
My
father packed a lot of activities and events into his life, and went through a
lot of ups and downs along the way, before he died at the relatively young age
of 68. I have now gone beyond him in longevity, something which I value and
appreciate, as would he I think.
William
Calvin Shepheard was born in 1914, just after the start of the Great War.
Growing up on a farm east of Calgary, Alberta, I doubt whether he would have
been aware of, or affected much by that conflict although I do know there were
members of the community who participated in the war efforts, both here and
overseas. What more concerned the people were building new homes, raising
families and surviving the harsh winters on the prairie, as many of them were
newcomers to the region and the country.
Bill Shepheard
as a two-year old in 1917
My
father’s extended family was very close-knit, not uncommon in rural communities.
He went to school and participated in many social activities with all of his
cousins. One of them actually introduced him to his future wife at a local
community dance. Farm work was shared among family members, all of the children
having chores to do when they were young. As they grew into adulthood they also
became part of the workforce operating the family enterprises.
He
married, Norma, his sweetheart on October 1st, 1939, about which I wrote in
my blogpost
earlier. They spent almost 35 years together before her untimely death in 1974.
Bill
left the farm in the late 1930’s to study electronics with Coyne Electrical
School based in Chicago, Illinois. For most of his life he worked as an
electronic technician: fixing radios, televisions and all manner of electrical
appliances. He was naturally independent and entrepreneurial, something he likely
learned in his early days tending to a myriad of farm jobs and responsibilities
He established his own businesses on a couple of occasions during his electronic
career.
He
volunteered during the Second World War, joining the Royal Canadian Air Force.
For several years, as a member of the force, he participated in, and taught courses
to others concerning electronic-related equipment and methods, in particular
related to aviation.
William
Shepheard, LAC - 1942
He
loved to take on new projects, and even built a home from scratch in the late
1940s. He was a ardent photographer and was one of the early users of the
home-movie camera. We have countless photographs and hundreds of hours of 8 mm
movies of family picnics and vacations, Christmas celebrations and general
family activities. I have mostly converted them all now to digital formats – just
in time, as many of the old films and negatives have deteriorated badly.
Dad
was involved in community activities with the Kiwanis Club and the Calgary Movie
Makers Club. All of us kids remember the many Christmas and other parties with friends
he and my mother developed with members of those groups, and the fund-raising
activities for which we were enlisted. He was even, for a short time, part of
the Calgary Auxiliary Police program.
He
was very much a family man, a trait developed during his farm upbringing. He
was always very pleased when all of us, along with several cousins on many
occasions, got together.
Bill with his
family at Christmas 1981
I
cannot begin to describe or list here all of the things my parents were
involved with over the years but it seems that, looking back, they were always
busy with friends or family doing something.
In
later life, he left the electronics world and bought a golf course business
located in central British Columbia. It was a sort of return to the land but,
more importantly, another chance to run his own business.
Over
the years he had medical problems to deal with, some very serious. They all interrupted
his work and family-life but he persevered through all the setbacks. The one
thing he could not fight successfully was the cancer that took his wife, my
mother, at the age of only 57. It was a devastating blow that I believe he never
entirely recovered from. He did marry again, I think for the companionship he
had missed, but that union did not work out as both of them hoped it would.
He
died in 1983, just nine years after my mother’s passing, succumbing to heart
disease brought on, partly I am convinced, by a life-long smoking habit. His
early death does not diminish what he accomplished or what kind of man he was.
What good character traits I have come in large part from him (the bad ones
cannot be blamed on either parent I’m afraid).
It
was a hundred years ago that William Calvin Shepheard arrived on the planet –
quite an amazing number when I think it was only one generation back from me.
Happy
Birthday Dad!
Bill Shepheard –
1982
Wayne
Shepheard is a volunteer with the Online Parish Clerk program in
England, handling four parishes in Devon, England. He has
published a number of articles about various aspects of genealogy and is a past
Editor of Chinook, the quarterly
journal of the Alberta Family Histories Society. Wayne also provides
genealogical consulting services through his business, Family History Facilitated.
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