In some
ways, I am like my mother. I keep stuff.
In a post
published here on 29 July 2014 (My Mother’s Scrapbook), I wrote about a scrapbook my mother assembled as part of a project
she did for a course at Normal School in 1936. It is an amazing thing to have in
my memorabilia, mainly because it was something she personally created. She
kept it until her death in 1974. And now I am keeping it.
I also wrote
about My Parents’ Wedding Anniversary (7 October 2014). One of my current projects is to
identify all the people that appear in the group photo taken at their reception.
So far, I have put names to about 2/3 of the guests in the picture.
Mom
assembled another book as well. This one is The Bridal Wreath, a book for
the bride. It contains cards, notes and photos from friends and
relatives that she received at bridal showers and that both she and Dad got
with wedding presents.
The basic
book cost $0.50 and according to instructions that came with it, was available
“at your jewelers or free with the purchase of a Bridal Wreath Engagement or
Wedding Ring.” I don’t know which acquisition method she chose to get it.The book
was formatted with pages for Prelude (events that happened before the wedding),
Showers and Entertainments, My Trousseau, The Wedding, The Reception, The
Bridal Party, The Guests, The Gifts, Newspaper Clippings, The Bridal Bouquet,
Wedding Anniversaries (a list of future occasions) and a two-page summary of
Questions of Wedding Etiquette (in case a new couple did not know all the rules
when organizing their wedding).
The book
lists all the people that attended the showers and the wedding reception.,
along with an itemized list of the gifts they gave the new couple. Mom included
some photos taken at the showers.
There are
newspaper clippings concerning the bride. There is even a sprig remaining from
the bouquet she carried.
Mom filled
in many of the blanks for names and dates. For instance, we know she received
her engagement ring on 7 April 1939 as she wrote that date in the spot
dedicated to that event.Some pages
she did not use as intended but glued in photos and cards they received
instead. Each card was included in the envelope it came in and the envelopes
glued to the pages of the book so they would not get lost. Cards could then be
taken out and looked at intact.Napkins
used at the showers and reception are also attached. One she kept was signed by
(I think all) the participants.The book is
a wonderful collection of memories of my parents that we all can now enjoy,
written in mother’s own hand. And a tangible look into an important event in
our family’s history.
