In January 2015 I wrote about mixed or blended families and how common they are in almost everyone’s family tree – blog post Don’t Forget About Those Half-Brothers and Sisters. In June of that year I wrote again about the subject, this time about remarriages in several Devon parish I look after as an Online Parish Clerk – blog post Remarriages and Blended Families.
In an article to be published in the July 2025 issue Family
Tree (UK) magazine, I discuss some of the ways in which blended families might
happen and offer several examples.
In the piece I related some of the history of my
father-in-law’s family in the article, headed by Alexander and Mary Ann (Milne)
McKay. But one other close-to-home story did not make it into the piece, that
for my mother-in-law, who was also a member of a blended family.
Jesse Walker Cooper was born on 7 December 1908, in Glasgow, Scotland, to parents Alexander and Elizabeth (Walker) Cooper. Elizabeth was Alexander’s second wife. Their marriage took place in Glasgow on 26 May 1908. Alexander’s unique story can be found in a blog post from 14 November 2017 - Alexander Cooper – Colour Sergeant, Cameronians, Scottish Rifles.
He had previously married Margaret Scott on 5 September 1890
in Hamilton, Scotland. They had two children, a daughter born 12 November 1892
and a son born 23 November 1895, both in Lossiemouth, Elgin, Scotland. The
daughter died at sea, while the couple was sailing home from an army posting in
India, on 10 February 1895. Margaret died of heart disease on 1 December 1907,
in Glasgow.
Elizabeth had had a daughter, Violet Walker, out of wedlock,
on 25 December 1905. She was given her mother’s maiden name. Following the
marriage of Elizabeth to Alexander, the daughter went to stay with her maternal
grandparents, living with them into adulthood. Violet never married so it is
not possible to trace her paternal roots through the DNA of any descendants.
The 1911 Scotland census shows Alexander and Elizabeth living in Glasgow with his first son, Alexander Jr., daughter Jesse and another son, John. Alexander and Elizabeth had five more children together between 1910 and 1917.
Alexander Jr. enlisted with the Scottish Rifles in 1914. He
was killed in action in France on 4 April 1916.
Alexander Sr. was illegitimate. No information is available
that could identify his biological father. He was less than truthful on almost
every major document he filed making it much more difficult to trace his
origins.
DNA testing of his male descendants has been rejected by
them. So, in this case as well, a whole family line is unidentified and likely
to stay that way unless we can make significant headway in the analysis of
autosomal DNA tests of female members of the family.
Jesse’s story highlights some of the difficulties in
unravelling blended families without additional written records of DNA tests.
We did not think to get a DNA test from her before her death which would have
assisted in sourcing her paternal roots.
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Given the harsh living conditions of past centuries, even
extending into the 20th century, losing one parent to accidental
death, natural disaster or epidemics was a frequent occurrence. With few
church, community or governmental assistance programs, surviving spouses would
have been quick to find new partners to share parenting.
Most family historians will find many blended families in
their tree, often with children as part of them that do not share blood
connections. That does not make them less related, however, in a truly familial
sense.